#2 I have a boyfriend, but sometimes I think about what my life would have been if we weren’t together. And there are other times that I think about being with other guys. Don’t get me wrong, I love my boyfriend so much, and I don’t know why I think about these things! Help me please! :(
Thinking about these things are just natural, really… but if you think about these in a way that it bugs you, and you love your boyfriend so much, you say, then probably a part of you is still not ready, and if not, still uncertain about your relationship. How long have you been together? Are there other guys in the picture? Or girls on his part? Are you guys legal? You love him but are you really sure about being in a relationship with him? You should consider all these things because these can be the reasons why you feel that way.
As much as possible, you should avoid thinking about those stuff, if it works then it`s okay and if not, then that`s the time you should really ask yourself, Do you really love him or not? Are you really sure or not? And if you can`t still help thinking about it, then you should talk with your boyfriend about this. Share your thoughts, tell him how you feel. Good communication will get you rid of all the doubts. Good communication between the two of you will really help you out.
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#1 My boyfriend didn’t answer my calls and he didn’t even bother to greet me yesterday. I feel like shit. I dunno what to do. :((
If he`s not answering any of your calls, just text him asking how he is and that you are worried about him. You can also ask his family and friends about him too. Yeah, and then wait until he contact you and you guys sort things out. But he may be up to something, you know, like a post-Valentine surprise for you. :-) Don`t worry too much, alright? And greet him still. :)
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